Are you new to homeschooling?
It can be intimidating: It’s your first homeschool conference, and you’re standing in that vendor hall surrounded by dozens of booths offering a wide range of curricula. Or you haven’t made it to a conference yet, so you’re sitting at your computer wondering where to even begin a search for textbooks. If you’re brand-new to homeschooling, where do you start?
I’m from a homeschooler family (so is my husband), and we’ve been homeschooling our children for five years now. As a relatively new homeschool mom, here are my five tips for getting started:
1. Define a philosophy of education. Homeschooling is simply schooling at home . . . right? Well, not so much anymore! The homeschooling movement is now old enough that there’s been time for clearly defined subgroups within the larger homeschool community to develop. Each is characterized by a philosophy of education, such as classical education, Charlotte Mason Method, unschooling, traditional, online, and more. Sound a bit overwhelming? Don’t worry—it doesn’t have to be. Find an article (like this one) that lays out the different styles to see which one gets you excited or would work best in your home.
“There’s no one right way to homeschool!”
Still not sure? Many parents choose the “traditional” style because that’s what they are comfortable with as it’s similar to a traditional classroom (think textbooks and distinct subjects, which is what I did growing up). With this style, you simply order grade-appropriate textbooks in the core subjects (math, science, history, literature, etc.) for each of your kids and follow what the textbook lays out. There are also online Christian homeschools that teach everything for you with teachers your kids can interact with if you want to go that route. As Dr. Georgia Purdom, a former homeschooling mom, said in one of her articles, “There’s no one right way to homeschool!”
2. Don’t overcomplicate it. It’s easy to get really excited about homeschooling, buy everything, and want to try everything all at once (I’ve been guilty of this!), but I’ve been warned by moms with experience—and I’ll echo the advice: Keep it simple as you begin. It might take a few “false starts” to figure out what works for you and your individual kids. Don’t get discouraged! Keep plugging away or trying something different that may work better.
3. Don’t force it. A veteran homeschool mom once advised me not to force schooling with my kids. One of the perks of homeschooling is, if you’re having one of “those days,” you can take a break! Go outside and go for a nature walk (or just play in the backyard). Stop and make a snack together. Call it a field trip day and go on an educational adventure. Or just stop for half an hour and try again when attitudes (perhaps including yours!) have had a reset. This is especially true as you just start out—it’s a big adjustment for you and your kids. It’ll be much more enjoyable and productive if you don’t force it on days where, for whatever reason, it’s just not working.
4. Watch out! Just because a curriculum is a “homeschool” curriculum doesn’t mean it’s Christian. And just because it’s “Christian” doesn’t mean it’s biblical! Dig a little before you invest money in a curriculum to make sure it’s really what you want shaping your children’s hearts and minds. And when concepts you don’t agree with do arise, either in your curriculum or outside it, be sure to have Bible-centered conversations that help teach your children discernment, critical thinking, and how to apply a biblical worldview to what they’re learning.
I was listening to a podcast once where the host mentioned a very popular homeschool curriculum that is produced by Mormons. She said some people she knows don’t like that curriculum because they’re worried some Mormon theology will creep in. The podcast host said she’d never noticed anything Mormon, everything about God was kept rather generic to avoid that issue, so she didn’t see the problem. But do you see the problem?
Homeschooling is a wonderful opportunity to pass on a biblical worldview to your children. Perhaps they aren’t getting any Mormon theology from that particular curriculum, but they aren’t getting biblical worldview either. Instead they are getting watered-down, surface-level teaching anytime the Bible is mentioned. If you choose to use a curriculum like that, be sure you are supplementing with biblical worldview, apologetics, and a very good Bible curriculum. God’s truth is the most important “subject” of the Christian homeschool!
5. Pray. Bring your new venture before the Lord. Trust that He has given you what you need for the hard job of parenting, discipling, and yes, schooling your child(ren). Homeschooling is hard. But it’s also very rewarding. (But don’t just take my word for it! Take my mom’s word for it—she’s successfully graduated 14 homeschoolers, with one more working toward the big graduation day!). If this is what the Lord has called you to do and you’ve prayerfully decided that this is best for your family, be encouraged that God will give you the grace to do it and do it well. Keep coming before Him with your worries, setbacks, victories, and questions, remembering “if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given him” (James 1:5).
If you’re looking for textbooks and curricula to help you get started with homeschooling, Answers in Genesis, and our publisher Master Books, offers a variety of material, all of which teach a biblical worldview. You can be confident the worldview woven throughout these resources is one you want your children to be absorbing.
Here are some suggestions either from our online store or Master Books’ (please note they are divided into rough categories, but many of them overlap, e.g., science textbooks also contain apologetics material):
Happy homeschooling!
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