1259. The Story Of A Runaway Slave

A Sermon Delivered On Sunday Evening, By C. H. Spurgeon, At The Metropolitan Tabernacle, Newington. *4/25/2012

Perhaps he therefore departed for a time, so that you should receive him for ever. [Phm 1:15]

1. Nature is selfish, but grace is loving. He who boasts that he cares for no one, and no one cares for him, is the opposite of a Christian, for Jesus Christ enlarges the heart when he cleanses it. No one is so tender and sympathetic as our Master, and if we are truly his disciples, the same mind will be in us which was also in Christ Jesus. The apostle Paul was eminently large hearted and sympathetic. Surely he had enough to do at Rome to bear his own troubles and to preach the gospel. If, like the priest in the parable of the good Samaritan, he had “passed by on the other side,” he might have been excused, for he was on the urgent business of that Master who once said to his seventy messengers, “Greet no man by the way.” We might not have wondered if he had said, “I cannot find time to attend to the needs of a runaway slave.” But Paul was not of that mind. He had been preaching, and Onesimus had been converted, and henceforth he regarded him as his own son. I do not know why Onesimus came to Paul. Perhaps he went to him as a great many incorrigible scamps have come to me — because their fathers knew me; and so, as Onesimus’s master had known Paul, the servant applied to his master’s friend, perhaps to beg for a little help in his extremity. Anyway, Paul seized the opportunity and preached Jesus to him, and the runaway slave became a believer in the Lord Jesus Christ. Paul watched him, admired the character of his convert, and was glad to be served by him, and when he thought it was right that he should return to his master, Philemon, he took a good deal of trouble to compose a letter of apology for him, a letter which shows deep thinking, since every word is well selected: albeit that the Holy Spirit dictated it, inspiration does not prevent a man’s exercising thought and care upon what he writes. Every word is chosen for a purpose. If he had been pleading for himself, he could not have pleaded more earnestly or wisely. Paul, as you know, was not accustomed to write letters with his own hand, but dictated to a scribe. It is supposed that he had a disease of the eyes, and therefore when he wrote he used large capital letters, as he says in one of the epistles, “You see how large a letter I have written to you with my own hand.” The epistle was not a large one, but he probably alluded to the largeness of the characters which he was obliged to use whenever he himself wrote. This letter to Philemon, at least part of it, was not dictated, but was written by his own hand. See the nineteenth verse. “I Paul have written it with my own hand. I will repay it.” It is the only signature which I remember in Scripture, but there it is — an I-O-U for whatever amount Onesimus may have stolen.

2. Let us cultivate a large hearted spirit, and sympathise with the people of God, especially with new converts, if we find them in trouble through past wrong doing. If anything needs setting right, do not let us condemn them out-of-hand, and say, “You have been stealing from your master, have you? You profess to be converted, but we do not believe it.” Such suspicious and severe treatment may be well deserved, but it is not such as the love of Christ would suggest. Try and set the fallen ones right, and give them again, as we say, “a fair start in the world.” If God has forgiven them, surely we may, and if Jesus Christ has received them, they cannot be too bad for us to receive. Let us do for them what Jesus would have done had he been here, so shall we truly be the disciples of Jesus.

3. Thus I introduce to you the text, and I notice concerning it, first that it contains an outstanding example of divine grace. Secondly, it brings before us a case of sin overruled. And, thirdly, it may be regarded as an example of a relationship improved by grace, for now he who was a servant for a time will remain with Philemon all his lifetime, and be no more a servant but a beloved brother.

4. I. But, first, let us look at Onesimus as AN EXAMPLE OF DIVINE GRACE.

5. We see the grace of God in his election. He was a slave. In those days slaves were very ignorant, untaught, and degraded. Being barbarously used, they were for the most part themselves sunk into the lowest barbarism, neither did their masters attempt to raise them out of it; it is possible that Philemon’s attempt to do good for Onesimus may have been irksome to the man, and he may therefore have fled from his house. His master’s prayers, warnings, and Christian regulations may have been disagreeable to him, and therefore he ran away. He wronged his master, which he could scarcely have done if he had not been treated as a confidential servant to some extent. Possibly the unusual kindness of Philemon, and the trust reposed in him may have been too much for his untrained nature. We do not know what he stole, but evidently he had taken something, for the apostle says, “If he has wronged you, or owes you anything, put that on my account.” He ran away from Colosse, therefore, and thinking that he would be less likely to be discovered by the ministers of justice, he sought the city of Rome, which was then as large as the city of London now is, and perhaps larger. There in those back slums, such as the Jews’ quarter in Rome now is, Onesimus would go and hide; or among those gangs of thieves which infested the imperial city, he would not be known or heard of any more, so he thought; and he could live the free and easy life of a thief. Yet, notice that the Lord looked out of heaven with an eye of love, and set that eye on Onesimus.

6. Were there no free men, that God must elect a slave? Were there no faithful servants, that he must choose one who had embezzled his master’s money? Were there none of the educated and polite, that he must needs look upon a barbarian? Were there none among the moral and the excellent, that infinite love should fix itself upon this degraded being, who was now mixed up with the very scum of society? And what the scum of society was in old Rome I should not like to think, for the upper classes were about as brutalized in their general habits as we can very well conceive; and what the lowest scum of all must have been, none of us can tell. Onesimus was part and parcel of the dregs of a sink of sin. Read Paul’s first chapter of the Epistle to the Romans, if you can, and you will see in what a horrible state the heathen world was at that time, and Onesimus was among the worst of the worst; and yet eternal love, which passed by kings and princes, and left Pharisees and Sadducees, philosophers and magi, to stumble in the dark as they chose, fixed its eye upon this poor benighted creature that he might be made a vessel of honour, fit for the Master’s use.

   When the Eternal bows the skies
      To visit earthly things,
   With scorn divine he turns his eyes
      From towers of haughty kings.
   He bids his awful chariot roll
      Far downward from the skies,
   To visit every humble soul,
      With pleasure in his eyes.
   Why should the Lord that reigns above
      Disdain so lofty kings?
   Say, Lord, and why such looks of love
      Upon such worthless things?
   Mortals, be dumb; what creature dares
      Dispute his awful will?
   Ask no account of his affairs,
      But tremble and be still.
   Just like his nature is his grace,
      All sovereign, and all free;
   Great God, how searchless are thy ways,
      How deep thy judgments be!

“I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion,” rolls like thunder equally from the cross of Calvary and from the mount of Sinai. The Lord is a sovereign, and does as he pleases. Let us admire that marvellous electing love which selected such a one as Onesimus!

7. Grace also is to be observed, in the next place, in the conversion of this runaway slave.

8. Look at him! How unlikely he appears to become a convert. He is an Asiatic slave of about the same grade as an ordinary lascar, [a] or heathen Chinese. He was, however, worse than the ordinary lascar, who is certainly free, and probably an honest man, if he is nothing else. This man had been dishonest, and he was daring as well, for after taking his master’s property he was bold enough to make a long journey from Colosse to reach Rome. But everlasting love intends to convert the man, and converted he shall be. He may have heard Paul preach at Colosse and Athens, but yet he had not been impressed. In Rome, Paul was not preaching in St. Peter’s: it was in no such noble building. Paul was not preaching in a place like the Tabernacle, where Onesimus could have a comfortable seat — no such place as that — but it was probably down there at the back of the Palatine hill, where the praetorian guard have their lodgings, and where there was a prison called the praetorian. In a bare room in the barrack prison Paul sat with a soldier chained to his hand, preaching to all who were admitted to hear him, and there it was that the grace of God reached the heart of this wild young man; and, oh, what an immediate change it made in him! Now you see him repenting of his sin, grieved to think he has wronged a good man, vexed to see the depravity of his heart as well as the error of his life. He weeps; Paul preaches to him Christ crucified, and the glance of joy is in his eye: and a load is taken from that heavy heart. New thoughts light up that dark mind; the very face is changed, and the entire man renewed, for the grace of God can turn the lion to a lamb, the raven to a dove.

9. Some of us, I have no doubt, are quite as wonderful examples of divine election and effectual calling as Onesimus was. Let us, therefore, record the lovingkindness of the Lord, and let us say to ourselves, “Christ shall have the glory for it. The Lord has done it; and to the Lord be honour, world without end.”

10. The grace of God was conspicuous in the character which it created in Onesimus upon his conversion, for he appears to have been helpful, useful, and profitable. So Paul says. Paul was willing to have had him as an associate, and it is not every man that is converted that we should altogether choose as a companion. There are odd people to be encountered who will go to heaven we have no doubt, for they are pilgrims on the right way, but we would like to keep on the other side of the road, for they are cross-grained, and there is something about those who one’s nature can no more delight in than the palate can take pleasure in nauseous medicine. They are a kind of spiritual hedgehogs; they are alive and useful, and no doubt they illustrate the wisdom and patience of God, but they are not good companions: one would not like to carry them in his bosom. But Onesimus was evidently of a kind, tender, loving spirit. Paul at once called him brother, and would have liked to retain him. When he sent him back, was it not a clear proof of a change of heart in Onesimus that he would go back? Away as he was in Rome, he might have passed on from one town to another, and have remained perfectly free, but feeling that he was under some kind of obligation to his master — especially since he had injured him — he takes Paul’s advice to return to his old position. He will go back, and take a letter of apology or introduction to his master; for he feels that it is his duty to make amends for the wrong that he has done. I always like to see a resolve to make restitution of former wrongs in people who profess to be converted. If they have taken any money wrongfully they ought to repay it; it would be well if they returned sevenfold. If we have in any way robbed or wronged another, I think the first instincts of grace in the heart will suggest compensation in all ways within our power. Do not think it is to be glossed over by saying, “God has forgiven me, and therefore I may leave it.” No, dear friend, but inasmuch as God has forgiven you, try to undo all the wrong, and prove the sincerity of your repentance by doing so. So Onesimus will go back to Philemon, and work out his term of years with him, or otherwise do Philemon’s wishes, for though he might have preferred to serve Paul, his first duty was due to the man whom he had injured. That showed a gentle, humble, honest, upright spirit; and let Onesimus be commended for it: indeed, let the grace of God be extolled for it. Look at the difference between the man who robbed, and the man who now comes back to be profitable for his master.

11. What wonders the grace of God has done! Brethren, let me add — What wonders the grace of God can do! Many plans are employed in the world for the reformation of the wicked and the reclaiming of the fallen, and for every one of these, as far as they are rightly constructed, we wish good success; for whatever things are lovely and pure, and of good report, we wish them God speed. But notice this word, — the true reforming of the drunkard lies in giving him a new heart; the true reclaiming of the prostitute is to be found in a renewed nature. Purity will never come to fallen women by those hideous Contagious Diseases Acts, [b] which, to my mind, wear, like Cain, a curse upon their forehead. Womanhood will only sink all the lower under such laws. The prostitute must be washed in the Saviour’s blood, or she will never be clean. The lowest strata of society will never be brought into the light of virtue, sobriety, and purity, except by Jesus Christ and his gospel; and we must stick to that. Let all others do what they like, but God forbid that I should glory except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ. I see certain of my brethren fiddling away at the branches of the tree of vice with their wooden saws, but, as for the gospel, it lays the axe at the roots of the whole forest of evil, and if it is fairly received into the heart it fells all the upas trees [c] at once, and instead of them there spring up the fir tree, the pine tree, and the box tree together, to beautify the house of our Master’s glory. Let us, when we see what the Spirit of God can do for men, proclaim the grace of God, and extol it with all our might.

12. II. And now, secondly, we have in our text, and its connections, a very interesting EXAMPLE OF SIN OVERRULED.

13. Onesimus had no right to rob his master and run away; but God was pleased to make use of that crime for his conversion. It brought him to Rome, and so brought him where Paul was preaching, and thus it brought him to Christ, and to his right mind. Now, when we speak of this, we must be cautious. When Paul says, “Perhaps he departed for a time, so that you should receive him for ever,” he does not excuse his departure. He does not infer that Onesimus did right — not for a moment. Sin is sin, and, whatever sin may be overruled to do, yet sin is still sin. The crucifixion of our Saviour has brought the greatest conceivable blessings upon mankind, yet none the less it was “with wicked hands” that they took Jesus and crucified him. The selling of Joseph into Egypt was the means in the hand of God of the preservation of Jacob, and his sons, in the time of famine; but his brethren had nothing to do with that, and they were none the less guilty for having sold their brother for a slave. Let it always be remembered that the faultiness or virtue of an act is not contingent upon the result of that act. If, for example, a man who has been stationed on a railway to turn the switch forgets to do it, you call it a very great crime if the train has an accident and a dozen people are killed. Yes, but the crime is the same if no one is killed. It is not the result of the carelessness, but the carelessness itself which deserves punishment. If it were the man’s duty to turn the switch in such and such a way, and his not doing so should even by some strange accident turn to the saving of life, the man would be equally blameworthy. There would be no credit due to him, for if his duty lies in a certain action his fault also lies in a certain action, namely, the neglecting of that duty. So if God overrules sin for good, as he sometimes does, it is none the less sin. It is sin just as much as ever, only there is so much the more glory to the wonderful wisdom and grace of God who, out of evil, brings forth good, and so does what only omnipotent wisdom can perform. Onesimus is not excused, then, for having embezzled his master’s goods nor for having left him without right; he still is a transgressor, but God’s grace is glorified.

14. Remember, too, that this must be noticed — that when Onesimus left his master he was performing an action the results of which, in all probability, would have been ruinous to him. He was living as a trusted dependent beneath the roof of a kind master, who had a church in his house. If I read the epistle properly, he had a godly mistress and a godly master, and he had an opportunity of learning the gospel continually; but this reckless young blade, very likely, could not bear it, and could have lived more contentedly with a heathen master, who would have beaten him one day and made him drunk another. He could not bear the Christian master, so away he went. He threw away the opportunities of salvation, and he went to Rome, and he must have gone into the lowest part of the city, and associated, as I have already told you, with the very grossest company. Now, had it come to pass that he had joined in the insurrections of the slaves which took place frequently about that time, as he in all probability would have done had not grace prevented, he would have been put to death as others had been. He would have had short shrift in Rome: half suspect a man and off with his head was the rule towards slaves and vagabonds. Onesimus was just the very man that would have been likely to be hurried to death and to eternal destruction. He had put his head, as it were, between the lion’s jaws by what he had done. When a young man suddenly leaves home and goes to London, we know what it means. When his friends do not know where he is, and he does not want them to know, we are aware, within a little while, where he is and what he is up to. What Onesimus was doing I do not know, but he was certainly doing his best to ruin himself. His course, therefore, is to be judged, as far as he is concerned, by what it was likely to bring him to; and though it did not bring him to it, that was no credit to him, but all the honour of it is due to the overruling power of God.

15. See, dear brethren, how God overruled everything. This is what the Lord had purposed. No one shall be able to touch the heart of Onesimus except Paul. Onesimus is living at Colosse; Paul cannot come there, he is in prison. It is necessary, then, that Onesimus should be brought to Paul. Suppose the kindness of Philemon’s heart had prompted him to say to Onesimus, “I want you to go to Rome, and find Paul and hear him.” This naughty servant would have said, “I am not going to risk my life to hear a sermon. If I go with the money you are sending to Paul, or with the letter, I shall deliver it, but I want none of his preaching.” Sometimes, you know, when people are brought to hear a preacher with the view of their being converted, if they have any idea of it, it is about the very last thing likely to happen, because they go there resolved to be fireproof, and so the preaching does not come home to them: and it would probably have been just so with Onesimus. No, no, he was not to be won in that way, he must be brought to Rome another way. How shall it be done? Well, the devil shall do it, not knowing that he will be losing a willing servant by it. The devil tempts Onesimus to steal. Onesimus does it, and when he has stolen he is afraid of being discovered, and so he makes tracks for Rome as quickly as he can, and gets down among the back slums, and there he feels what the prodigal felt — a hungry belly, and that is one of the best preachers in the world for some people: their conscience is reached in that way. Being very hungry, not knowing what to do, and no man giving anything to him, he thinks whether there is anyone in Rome that would take pity on him. He does not know anyone in Rome at all, and is likely to starve. Perhaps one morning there was a Christian woman — I should not wonder — who was going to hear Paul, and she saw this poor man sitting crouched up on the steps of a temple, and she went to him and spoke about his soul. “Soul,” he said, “I care nothing about that, but my body would thank you for something to eat. I am starving.” She replied, “Come with me, then,” and she gave him bread, and then she said, “I do this for Jesus Christ’s sake.” “Jesus Christ!” he said, “I have heard of him. I used to hear about him over at Colosse.” “Whom did you hear speak about him?” the woman would ask. “Why, a short man with weak eyes, a great preacher, named Paul, who used to come to my master’s house.” “Why, I am going to hear him preach,” the woman would say, “will you come and hear him with me?” “Well, I think I should like to hear him again. He always had a kind word to say to the poor.” So he goes in and pushes his way among the soldiers, and Paul’s Master incites Paul to speak the right word. It may have been so, or it may have been the other way — that not knowing anyone else at all, he thought, “Well, there is Paul, I know. He is here a prisoner, and I will go down and see what prison he is in.” He goes down to the Praetorium and finds him there, tells him about his extreme poverty, and Paul talks to him, and then he confesses the wrong he has done, and Paul, after teaching him for a little while, says, “Now, you must go back and make amends to your master for the wrong you have done.” It may have been either of these ways, at any rate, the Lord must have Onesimus in Rome to hear Paul, and the sin of Onesimus, though perfectly voluntary on his part, so that God had no hand in it, is yet overruled by a mysterious providence to bring him where the gospel shall be blest to his soul.

16. Now, I want to speak to some of you Christian people about this matter. Do you have a son who has left home? Is he a wilful, wayward young man, who has gone away because he could not bear the restraints of a Christian family? It is a sad thing it should be so — a very sad thing, but do not despond or even have a thought of despair about him. You do not know where he is, but God does; and you cannot follow him, but the Spirit of God can. He is going on a voyage to Shanghai. Ah, there may be a Paul at Shanghai who is to be the means of his salvation, and since that Paul is not in England, your son must go there. Is it to Australia that he is going? There may be a word spoken there by the blessing of God to your son which is the only word which ever will reach him. I cannot speak it; no one in London can speak it; but the man there will; and God, therefore, is letting him go away in all his wilfulness and folly so that he may be brought under the means of grace, which will prove effective to his salvation. Many a sailor boy has been wild, reckless, Godless, Christless, and at last has gotten into a foreign hospital. Ah, if his mother knew that he was down with the yellow fever, how sad her mind would be, for she would conclude that her dear son will die away at Havana or somewhere, and never come home again. But it is just in that hospital that God intends to meet him. A sailor writes to me something like that. He says, “My mother asked me to read a chapter every day, but I never did. I got into the hospital at Havana, and, when I lay there, there was a man near to me who was dying, and he died one night; but before he died he said to me, ‘Mate, could you come here? I want to speak to you. I have something that is very precious to me here. I was a wild fellow, but reading this packet of sermons has brought me to the Saviour, and I am dying with a good hope through grace. Now, when I am dead and gone, will you take these sermons and read them, and may God bless them to you. And will you write a letter to the man who preached and printed those sermons, to tell him that God blessed them to my conversion, and that I hope he will bless them to yourself?’ ” It was a packet of my sermons, and God did bless them to that young man who, I have no doubt whatever, went to that hospital because there a man who had been brought to Christ would hand to him the words which God had blessed to himself and would bless to his friend. You do not know, dear mother, you do not know. The worst thing that can happen to a young man is sometimes the best thing that can happen to him. I have sometimes thought when I have seen young men of position and wealth taking to racing and all kinds of dissipation, “Well, it is a dreadfully bad thing, but they may as well get through their money as quickly as they ever can, and then when they have gotten down to beggary they will be like the young gentleman in the parable who left his father.” When he had spent all, there arose a mighty famine in that land, and he began to be in need, and he said, “I will arise and go to my father.” Perhaps the disease that follows vice — perhaps the poverty that comes like an armed man after extravagance and debauchery — is only love in another form, sent to compel the sinner to come to himself and consider his ways and seek an ever merciful God.

17. You Christian people often see the little gutter children — the poor little urchins in the street — and you feel much pity for them, as well you may. There is a dear sister here, Miss Annie MacPherson, who lives only for them. May God bless her and her work! When you see them you cannot be glad to see them as they are, but I have often thought that the poverty and hunger of one of these poor little children has a louder voice to most hearts than their vice and ignorance; and God knew that we were not ready and able to hear the cry of the child’s sin, and so he added the child’s hunger to that cry, so that it might pierce our hearts. People could live in sin, and yet be happy, if they were well-to-do and rich; and if sin did not make parents poor and wretched, and their children miserable, we should not see it, and therefore we would not arouse ourselves to grapple with it. It is a blessing, you know, in some diseases when the patient can throw the complaint out upon the skin. It is a horrible thing to see it on the skin, but still it is better than its being hidden inside; and often the outward sin and the outward misery are a kind of throwing out of the disease, so that the eye of those who know where the healing medicine is to be obtained is drawn to the disease by it, and so the soul’s secret malady is dealt with. Onesimus might have stayed at home, and he might never have been a thief, but he might have been lost through self-righteousness. But now his sin is visible. The thief has displayed the depravity of his heart, and now it is that he comes under Paul’s eye and Paul’s prayer, and becomes converted. Do not, I urge you, ever despair of a man or woman or child because you see their sin upon the surface of their character. On the contrary, say to yourself, “This is placed where I can see it, so that I may pray about it. It is thrown out under my eye so that I may now concern myself to bring this poor soul to Jesus Christ, the mighty Saviour, who can save the most forlorn sinner.” Look at it in the light of earnest, active benevolence, and rouse yourselves to conquer it. Our duty is to hope on and to pray on. It may be, perhaps, that “he therefore departed for a time, so that you should receive him for ever.” Perhaps the boy has been so wayward that his sin may come to a crisis, and a new heart may be given to him. Perhaps your daughter’s evil has been developed so that now the Lord may convict her of sin and bring her to the Saviour’s feet. At any rate, if the case is ever so bad, hope in God, and pray on.

18. III. Once more. Our text may be viewed as AN EXAMPLE OF IMPROVED RELATIONSHIPS, “He therefore departed for a time, so that you should receive him for ever; not now as a servant, but a beloved brother, especially to one, but how much more to you?”

19. You know we are a long while learning great truths. Perhaps Philemon had not quite found out that it was wrong for him to have a slave. Some men who were very good in their time did not know it. John Newton did not know that he was doing wrong in the slave trade, and George Whitfield, when he left slaves to the orphanage at Savannah, who had been willed to him, did not think for a moment that he was doing anything more than if he had been dealing with horses, or gold and silver. Public sentiment was not enlightened, although the gospel has always struck at the very root of slavery. The essence of the gospel is that we are to do to others as we would have others do to us, and no one would wish to be another man’s slave, and therefore he has no right to have another man as his slave. Perhaps, when Onesimus ran away and came back again, this letter of Paul may have opened Philemon’s eyes a little concerning his own position. No doubt he may have been an excellent master, and have trusted his servant, and not treated him as a slave at all, but perhaps he had not regarded him as a brother; and now Onesimus has come back he will be a better servant, but Philemon will be a better master, and a slaveholder no longer. He will regard his former servant as a brother in Christ.

20. Now, this is what the grace of God does when it comes into a family. It does not alter the relationships; it does not give the child a right to be impertinent, and forget that he is to be obedient to his parents; it does not give the father a right to lord it over his children without wisdom and love, for it tells him that he is not to provoke his children to anger, lest they are discouraged; it does not give the servant the right to be a master, neither does it take away from the master his position, or allow him to exaggerate his authority, but it softens and sweetens all around. Rowland Hill used to say that he would not give a halfpenny for a man’s piety if his dog and his cat were not better off after he was converted. There was much weight in that remark. Everything in the house goes better when grace oils the wheels. The mistress is, perhaps, rather sharp, quick, tart; well, she gets a little sugar into her constitution when she receives the grace of God. The servant may be apt to loiter, be late rising in the morning, very slovenly, fond of gossiping at the door; but, if she is truly converted, all that kind of thing ends. She is conscientious, and attends to her duty as she ought. The master, perhaps, — well, he is the master, and you know it. But when he is a truly Christian man — he has a gentleness, an agreeableness, a considerateness about him. The husband is the head of the wife, but when renewed by grace he is not at all the head of the wife as some husbands are. The wife also keeps her place, and seeks, by all gentleness and wisdom to make the house as happy as she can. I do not believe in your religion, dear friend, if it belongs to the Tabernacle, and the prayer meeting, and not to your home. The best religion in the world is what smiles at the table, works at the sewing machine, and is amiable in the drawing room. Give me the religion which blackens boots, and does them well; cooks the food, and cooks it so that it can be eaten; measures out yards of calico, and does not make them half an inch short; sells a hundred yards of an article, and does not label ninety a hundred, as many tradespeople do. That is the true Christianity which affects the entire life. If we are truly Christians we shall be changed in all our relationships to our fellow men, and hence we shall regard those whom we call our inferiors with quite a different eye. It is wrong in Christian people when they are so sharp with little faults that they see in servants, especially if they are Christian servants. That is not the way to correct them. They see a little something wrong, and, oh, they are down upon the poor girls, as if they had murdered someone. If your Master, and mine, were to treat you in that way I wonder how you would react? How quick some are in discharging their maids for small errors. No excuse, no giving them a second chance: they must go. Many a young man has been discharged for the smallest trifle, by a Christian employer, when he must have known that he would be exposed to all kinds of risks: and many a servant has been sent adrift as if she were a dog, with no kind of thought whether another position could be found, and without anything being done to prevent her from going astray. Do let us think of others, especially of those whom Christ loves even as he loves us. Philemon might have said, “No, no, I will not take you back, Mr. Onesimus, not I. Once bitten, twice shy, sir. I never ride a broken-kneed horse. You stole my money; I am not going to have you back again.” I have heard that kind of talk, have you not? Did you ever feel like it? If you have, go home and pray to God to get such a feeling out of you, for it is bad stuff to have in your soul. You cannot take it to heaven. When the Lord Jesus Christ has forgiven you so freely, are you to take your servant by the throat and say, “Pay me what you owe?” God forbid that we should continue in such a temper. Be compassionate, easily entreated, ready to forgive. It is a good deal better that you should suffer a wrong than do a wrong: much better that you should overlook a fault which you might have noticed, than notice a fault which you ought to have overlooked.

   Let love through all your actions run,
      And all your words be kind,

is said in the little hymn which we used to learn when we were children. We should practise it now, and — 

   Live like the blessed virgin’s Son
      That meek and lowly child.

May God grant we may, by his infinite grace.

21. I want to say this, and then I am finished. If the mysterious providence of God was to be seen in Onesimus getting to Rome, I wonder whether there is any providence of God in some of you being here tonight! It is possible. Such things do happen. People come here who never meant to come. The last thing in the world they would have believed if anyone had said it is that they would be here, yet here they are. With all manner of twists and turns they have gone about, but they have gotten here somehow. Did you miss a train, and so stepped in to wait? Does your ship not sail quite so soon as you expected, and so you are here tonight? Say, is that it? I do urge you, then, to consider this question with your own heart. “Does God not intend to bless me? Has he not brought me here on purpose so that tonight I may yield my heart to Jesus as Onesimus did?” My dear friend, if you believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, you shall have immediate pardon for all sin, and shall be saved. The Lord has brought you here in his infinite wisdom to hear that, and I hope that he has also brought you here so that you may accept it, and so go your way altogether changed. About three years ago I was talking with an aged minister, and he began fumbling around in his waistcoat pocket, but he was a long while before he found what he wanted. At last he brought out a letter that was almost worn to pieces, and he said, “God Almighty bless you! God Almighty bless you!” And I said, “Friend, what is it?” He said, “I had a son. I thought he would be the stay of my old age, but he disgraced himself, and he went away from me, and I could not tell where he went, only he said he was going to America. He took a ticket to sail for America from the London Docks, but he did not go on the particular day that he expected.” This aged minister asked me to read the letter, and I read it, and it was like this: — “Father, I am here in America. I have found a job, and God has prospered me. I write to ask your forgiveness for the thousand wrongs that I have done to you, and the grief I have caused you, for blessed be God, I have found the Saviour. I have joined the church of God here, and hope to spend my life in God’s service. It happened like this: I did not sail for America the day I expected. I went down to the Tabernacle to see what it was like, and God met me. Mr. Spurgeon said, ‘Perhaps there is a runaway son here. May the Lord call him by his grace.’ And he did.” “Now,” he said, as he folded up the letter and put it in his pocket, “that son of mine is dead, and he is in heaven, and I love you, and I shall do so as long as I live, because you were the means of bringing him to Christ.” Is there a similar character here tonight? I feel persuaded there is — someone of the same kind; and in the name of God I charge him to take the warning that I give to him from this pulpit. I dare you to go out of this place as you came in. Oh, young man, the Lord in mercy gives you another opportunity of turning from the error of your ways, and I implore you now here — as you now are — lift your eye to heaven, and say, “God be merciful to me a sinner,” and he will be so. Then go home to your father and tell him what the grace of God has done for you, and marvel at the love which brought you here to bring you to Christ.

22. Dear friend, if there is nothing mysterious about it, yet here we are. We are in the place where the gospel is preached, and that brings responsibility upon us. If a man is lost, it is better for him to be lost without hearing the gospel, than to be lost as some of you will be if you perish under the sound of a clear, earnest enunciation of the gospel of Jesus Christ. How long do some of you halt between two opinions? “Have I been so long time with you,” says Christ, “and yet have you not known me?” All this teaching and preaching and invitation, and yet do you not turn?

   Oh God, do thou the sinner turn,
   Convince him of his lost estate.

Let him linger no longer, lest he linger until he rue his fatal choice too late. May God bless you, for Christ’s sake. Amen.

[Portion Of Scripture Read Before Sermon — Phm 1]
[See Spurgeon_Hymnal “The Work of Grace as a Whole — Eternal Love Exalted” 231]
[See Spurgeon_Hymnal “The Work of Grace as a Whole — Grace Causing Love” 248]

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[b] The Contagious Diseases Acts were originally passed by the Parliament of the United Kingdom in 1864 … The legislation allowed police officers to arrest prostitutes in certain ports and army towns, and the women were then subjected to compulsory checks for venereal disease. See Explorer "http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Contagious_Diseases_Acts"
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The Work of Grace as a Whole
231 — Eternal Love Exalted
1 Saved from the damning power of sin,
   The law’s tremendous curse,
   We’ll now the sacred song begin
   Where God began with us.
2 We’ll sing the vast unmeasured grace
   Which, from the days of old,
   Did all the chosen sons embrace,
   As sheep within the fold.
3 The basis of eternal love
   Shall mercy’s frame sustain;
   Earth, hell, or sin, the same to move,
   Shall all conspire in vain.
4 Sing, oh ye sinners bought with blood,
   Hail the Great three in One;
   Tell how secure the covenant stood
   Ere time its race begun.
5 Ne’er had ye felt the guilt of sin,
   Nor sweets if pardoning love,
   Unless your worthless names had been
   Enroll’d to life above.
6 Oh what a sweet exulting song
   Shall rend the vaulted skies,
   When, shouting grace, the blood-wash’d throng
   Shall see the top stone rise.
                           John Kent, 1803.

The Work of Grace as a Whole
248 — Grace Causing Love
1 We love thee, Lord, because when we
   Had err’d and gone astray,
   Thou didst recall our wandering souls
   Into the heavenward way.
2 When helpless, hopeless, we were lost
   In sin and sorrow’s night,
   Thou didst send forth a guiding ray
   Of thy benignant light.
3 Because when we forsook thy ways,
   Nor kept thy holy will,
   Thou wert not the avenging Judge,
   But gracious Father still:
4 Because we have forgot thee, Lord,
   But thou hast not forgot;
   Because we have forsaken thee,
   But thou forsakest not:
5 Because, oh Lord, thou lovedst us
   With everlasting love;
   Because thou send’st thy Son to die,
   That we might live above:
6 Because, when we were heirs of wrath,
   Thou gav’st us hope of heaven;
   We love because we much have sinn’d,
   And much have been forgiven.
                  Julia Anne Elliott, 1835.